What really matters

As citizens of the United states we are filled with different ideas, morals, and values that have all been put and stirred in this mutilated melting pot we call America . Most of us have been consumed by greed, power, and jealousy. Many noble lives have fallen simply because they cared enough for the people around them.  In the core of each and everyone of us  is a drive that we all should revalue and understand: our relationships. All the money, success, and  luck in the world would mean nothing without the people that we share our lives with. Many good friends are casted away the moment we have a chance to gain more power or wealth. We are all comprised of the relationships we make and to turn down the people that have been there for us is like breaking away what made you so special. Our family, friends and even enemies have shaped our lives in ways we ourselves could never dream of, and yet we take them all from granted, we have sold our self's to capitalism and it is us that have the biggest debt to pay. Your new found success should not be a reason to cast away beloved friends or family they should be the people you rejoice with. True strength and courage is being able to understand and pay respect to those around you because it is they who have made you who you are today.

Is Love Real?

What is love, and is it real? Scientifically love is just adrenalin in the blood stream heading towards the hypothalamus causing a sensation in the brains “pleasure” spot giving the feelings normally associated with love like a Butterfly feeling and heart beating faster. Then again maybe it’s something we just have to believe in without any rational proof. The greatest gift other than life that we are born with is the power to give things meaning. A box in a literal sense is just a box, but given thought and a little meaning that box can be much more, it can be an airplane, a building block for a fortress, or even a train.  Science cannot explain everything, sometimes we have to take a leap of faith into the unknown and trust in ourselves. It’s only in the mysterious equations of love that any logical reason can be found.

Our Essence

I do believe that we all exist in different dimensions through time and space and have always wondered who are we and if we are really the same person; would we make the same friends, make the same mistakes, fall in love with the same people, or act differently in different environment. All those questions make me wonder how different we would really be, but then I think that if we met our self from different dimensions I think we would realize that our essences are still all the same. What I mean by essence is what the German existentialist philosopher jasper meant by soul. I feel even though we might be effect by our environment or different events that occur in our different lives, our souls will all still remain constant with each other. While our actions may seem different throughout worlds depending in the conditions we live in I feel the end result of our lives will be the same. For example if someone soul was one that was kind and generous that will manifest in multiple ways but still mean the same, like if in one world a person is rich and in another they are poor one can donate a large sum of his money to the less fortunate and the other might help someone out to get food or share shelter; both show a manifestation of their kindness in their soul but in different ways hence showing that the end result is the same. Same goes with friends and love ones, we might meet them all in different circumstances but I feel that those connections will still be made one way or another because our souls are all connected in a chain of events. Our relationship have already been formed. No matter how trivial a meeting and the incidents that follow may seem, a relationship is made. Even if it is just for a short amount of time, a knot that has been tied does not unravel. It means that during your lifetime, every incident that passes has meaning. The meeting between you and I also has meaning, so remember it .All events that happen in our lives are significant, no matter how unimportant the meeting... how small the outcome... it will always have some later effect on you. It can be the smallest of things. It can be the shortest of moments. It may never be remembered. It may have never been recorded. A bond of fate never disappears once tied.

Limited life

Most people have their own reasons why they think life is so great and meaningful whether it’s because of the bonds we make or the experience we have and share, but I believe the reason why life is so special is because of death. Once something is lost it can never be return, as in life. We will all at one point die and we engage in activities with other individuals because we are trying to create all those “picture perfect memories”. It’s because we know we will all die one day that’s we try to add meaning to our lives, something to be remembered for. We only have one opportunity to live so that's why we try to give everything a meaning, it’s a wonderful skill we all have to make something more then what it actually is. The reason why life is filled with so much joy and experiences and relationships is because we understand that what we have isn’t a unlimited source, our lives are very limited and it’s up to use to put in the quality in our quantity of life.

Myth. illusion.

Coincidence is a myth my friend and we must all acknowledge that. Everything that happens is inevitable nothing happens by luck because luck does not exist. We all want to remain hopeful and give too much meaning to things, we fall prey to lies in the form of fortune tellers, the meaning of the stars, and even common horoscopes. There are endless possibilities that can happen in our lives that it is nearly impossible for anyone or thing to tell us how things will turn out. Making one choice can cause thousands of possibilities to rise from it. We are all just trying to control our lives and shape them in the way we want them to be but having control is just an illusion. No one has control of their life even our choices are limited by past decision and morals that we have and value. We all have control over the choices but that control is meaningless because we do not have control over the situations we are in and the choices that are up for choosing. Believing that we do have control is merely wishful thinking that will get you nowhere. We have to accept and embraces the inevitability and our own uncertainties of life.